Some people are over thinkers. 

Some people are under thinkers. 

I prefer to think of myself as a creative and free spirited thinker. 

The consequences will always be the same. No matter how much we over think or under think. But if we creatively think, at least we’ll have more fun thinking. 

I’m Not Stupid

How naive I was to believe love would prevail. But then again, I make no apologies for being a hopeless romantic. 

I make no apologies for believing in people. For being the eternal optimist. For believing only the good in people. 

This doesn’t make me stupid. It makes makes hopeful. 


Time heals all wounds when it comes to relationships. If there is tension, frustration, or worry, let it all go. Start doing things that aren’t related to your relationship and let time solve everything. Best case scenario is that he contacts you. Worst case is he doesn’t. If he doesn’t, no point in worrying about that either, as the relationship must have never been that strong to begin with. Misunderstanding is the number one cause of failed relationships. The solution: let the small stuff slide and enjoy your time together. Most relationship problems can be solved through having a life outside of your relationship to fall back on.

If you stop and think for a moment, you’ll realize that our mistakes are inevitable. We will continue making them, and we will forget about past mistakes we have made. So why are we so critical of other people’s mistakes? We need to be more forgiving and understanding. Don’t expect someone else to do a job that only you know how to do perfectly. It takes a strong woman to own up to her mistakes, and it takes an even stronger woman to forgive others for their mistakes. Do both of these and watch people start to do the same for you in return. Time will heal whatever mistakes you have made.


People react differently than we think they should. Everyone has a different definition of reasonable and unreasonable. It’s finding the balance and understanding of where each other are coming from that will create cohesiveness and understanding.

My Words of Wisdom

Remember: Life is way too short. Remain calm and smile when others go crazy. Smile in the face of adversity. You’ll save your sanity and put them at ease too.

You have permission to be whoever the hell you want to be. 

It’s easy to get caught in the weeds, just keep looking up and over. There are more important things on which to focus. 

And sometimes, being true to yourself and living your best life possible, means those you love may get hurt. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them though. Because living with regret is the most painful way to live. Not only do you pay the price, those around you pay as well. 
My point is, BE HAPPY! Never know how much time you have left.